After 60 years of parental opposition, couple finally gets married

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Len Allbrighton and Jeanette Steer went to the same school in Cowes on the Isle of Wight, but didn’t meet until they worked in a hospital together in the sixties

Six decades after their parents called off their engagement, a couple of young sweethearts have finally exchanged vows.

Even though Len Allbrighton, 79, and Jeanette Steer, 78, had a very difficult time getting together, they are now more joyful than ever.

When Len was 19 and Jeanette was 18, they first met in 1963.

Len Allbrighton in 1963, during his Isle of Wight years ahead of the move to Australia.

They claimed to have fallen in love at first sight while working as student nurses at St. Mary’s Hospital in Newport, on the Island of Wight.

Soon after they first met, Len proposed to her by getting down on one knee. Nevertheless, destiny had other ideas.

After Jeanette accepted his proposal, he moved to Australia, planning to buy a plot of land and build a house for them to live in once they were married.

However, the age of consent at the time was 21, and Jeanette was three years too young.

Her mum and dad put a stop to the planned wedding, and Len received a heartbreaking letter calling off the engagement while he was living down under.

Len took this picture of Jeannette Wild, as she was then known, in Godshill on the Isle of Wight in May 1963.

Over the next 50 years, Len married a woman in Australia, had three children, divorced, and moved to Stevenage where he worked as a district nurse.

Jeanette, meanwhile, stayed on the Isle of Wight to also become a nurse, then got married to a naval officer and had two kids.

She was retired and still with her husband when Len decided to track down his old flame by travelling to Newport and looking up her address using the electoral roll in the local library.

He said: ‘I was daunted, not knowing what her reaction would be or if I would even see her.

‘I went on the off chance. It was not an easy place to find but I did.

Len and Jeanette at the Cromwell Hotel in Stevenage after their wedding (Picture: Len Albrighton/SWNS)

‘I just hoped she was ok – I didn’t expect anything else.’

Len stood by her garden fence looking at the house, when Jeanette – not recognising him 52 years older and sporting a beard – asked who he was.

She said: ‘I nearly died when I realised it was him standing by my garden fence.

‘I was glad he looked me up. I thought of him a lot at the time.’

At the time, she sent her former fiance away and told her husband he was a stranger asking for directions.

But two years later, Jeanette’s husband died from cancer, and she reached back out to Len using an address he’d included on a Christmas card the year before.

Len Allbrighton in 1963, during his Isle of Wight years ahead of the move to Australia.

In 2018, she agreed to move up to Stevenage to live with him, and last year Len once again got down on one knee and asked her to marry him.

Their wedding took place on February 11, with new matching rings and their children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren to bear witness.

Jeanette said: ‘Married life is fantastic – it couldn’t be better.

‘It’s nice to have someone who treats me with respect. I like doing everything and anything with Len.’

Her new husband said: ‘We fell in love again.

‘We read poems to each other and exchanged rings – I got emotional when reading mine.

‘I was overwhelmed with my love for her.’

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