I CRUSHED ON SOME WOMEN AT CHURCH, IT’S NORMAL, PRIESTS ARE NOT GIVEN INJECTION TO SUPPRESS SEXUAL FEELINGS – FRANK BWALYA
By Angela Muchinshi
I crushed on some congregants when I was a priest, because priests are not given an injection to subdue their sexual feelings, says former Catholic Priest Frank Bwalya who is now married.
This is reminiscent of a song by Danny Kaya “Mukwanisha shani”, a 2005 hit from the album Kaya. The song raises questions around how priests manage to stay for so many years without having a girlfriend – that is if they actually do manage by the way – and Mr Bwalya lets us in on the hardships around celibacy.
He admits that the desire for women is one of the biggest temptations in priesthood, but says his decision to marry is not because he’s opposed to celibacy.
In this exclusive interview, Bwalya points outs that priests are not given injections to suppress sexual feelings, and adds that whatever weaknesses priests have before being ordained do not just disappear after being ushered into ministry…
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Its good to be honest and sincere. I can vouch for father Bwalya as a fellow man. All my friends know me as a girls man but when I tell them I went into voluntary celibacy for ten years they cant believe me. I did this to test my own self-discipline. Iam also known for loving my Mosi but at the time I even stopped drinking and those who couldn’t believe me were really amazed. The inner happiness I had was unmatched as I was really impressed with my self control. After my experience I know that it can be done and I wont doubt any priest, catholic or not, who advocates or practices it.
So you went to socialist party and discovered that for fuledi you became a chick he started do you yakumbuyo?