How can I convince my wife to let me marry a second wife ?
I’ve been married for ten years now and about three years ago, I met another lady who I later fell in love with. We have a son together and I have three daughters with my wife.
My wife is my best friend and I would never leave her.
She’s been with me through everything. On the other hand, I love my girlfriend and I don’t want to leave her either, she doesn’t have a problem with me being married and she wants to meet my daughters, I would love for all my kids to grow up together. My girlfriend is very kind and loving, she always knows how to take care of me, she excites me.
My wife is more like a friend, the chemistry is no longer there but I still love her and want her in my life. I don’t know how to ask her to let me marry my girlfriend, she will have her own place nothing will change.
My girlfriend has no problem being a second wife as long as I’m able to take care of everyone and I know I can, I have been doing that for the last three years.
I’m scared that she might want to leave me if I tell her all this.